Sunday, August 14, 2016

A Little Birthday Pomp


This is a picture of my father from Junior High School.  Check out that pompadour!

I am not sure what age he was in this photo, but today he would have been 75.

He's been gone 10 years now.  It's amazing how the time has flown.  I think about him often and miss him when I do.







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2015: 
Lone House On The Prairie

2014: Squeezing Through The Backroads
2013: Waves Of Steel

2012: Forever In Bloom
2011: Ed Visits His First Warehouse Store
2010: HBD 143
2009: Eddie Hauls Laundry The White Trash Way Friday
2008: Sun Setting Over Lake Pontchartrain
2007: Sanchez. Pedro Sanchez.
2006: Remembering Those In Heaven
2005: The Line Of Gold Thread

Saturday, August 13, 2016

Get Lost In The Links

My cloud photo with graphics from the OVER app.
Have you ever thought spinning clay could soothe? No?  Watch this ceramics master do his thing. More soothing and satisfying videos here.    

10 Healthiest Ways to Eat a Sandwich.

Seven sisters and 37 feet of hair.

Do you know how much freakin' cardio you have to do to make it worthwhile??  Holy moly.

I'm a big fan of pocket doors and telephone nooks.

I'd consider moving to Waco if these two could design my house.

Who doesn't love a spinning top?  These are some of the most beautiful I've seen.

Chile-Lime Melon Salad.  Refreshing.

"Wings" without the guilt. 


DIY ideas just in case you've been thinking of tying the knot, country style.


Health facts that are just plain 'ol wrong.

Skinny houses - sometimes known as Spite Houses - can be found around the world.


Don't throw it away...put it to use.  DIY projects for things that usually wind up in the trash.    

The bus that straddles traffic actually works.  

Zucchini....in tart form.  



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2015: 
Up In The Bakken 

2014: I See A Molasses Sorghum Cookie In My Future
2013: Save Fifty Cents By Staying Away From The Card Tables - Go To A Concert Instead
2012: Zero Tolerance Zone
2011: Flicker Of Hope…GONE
2010: Knee Deep In Training
2009: She Sells Seashells By The Seashore
2008: Shopping At Walmart Is The Closest Some Of Us WilL Ever Get To China
2007: Giving Indians A Bad Name
2006: Six Flags Of Horror Fly Over Texas
2005: Snake River

Tuesday, August 09, 2016

Monday, August 08, 2016

Let The Winds Of Heaven Dance Between You

This weekend we attended one of the most beautiful memorial services I've ever been part of.  Unlike most of the wakes I've been to in my life, where people wear black and are somber and quiet, this was truly a celebration of a life lived.

At the service, there was music, prayer, and heartwarming readings.  The eulogy painted a vivid picture of a woman who touched lives by showering everyone she met with love and joy.  Even more evident was the crazy love she shared with her husband of more than four decades.

After the service, everyone was invited to a reception and dance party.  The program said, "Bring your smiles and dancing shoes and come play with us!"

I recently read something I think is fitting for these inevitable and sad parts of life:

Death leaves a heartache no one can heal.  Love leaves a memory no one can steal.




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2015: 
A Virgin In Arizona
2014: Whichever Way The Wind Blows
2013: Big Shoulders And Tall Buildings
2012: After The Storm
2005: 14,410 Feet Of Beauty

Sunday, August 07, 2016

These Girls Generate A Brisk Business


An early advertisement from National Airlines.  

The first lines read, “You’ve met my friend Cheryl.  And some more friends:  Karen, Laura, Margie, Pat, Undra, and Anne.  And you’ve flown them to New York, Miami, Los Angeles, San Francisco – even London.  It must be something you like doing because business is very brisk and still growing.”

I'm guessing the image of "flying" all these women wouldn't "fly" today.



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2015: A Tough Goodbye

2014: It's Always Polite To Ask Permission First
2013: Too Unorganized To Organize, But I'll Bet They Have Thirty Minutes To Write A Letter
2012: Islands Are Out, But What About Canals?
2011: Survival Training And Retirement Planning
2010: Just A Glimpse
2009: Eddie Mails A Package In His Dorfman Friday
2008: Shower Jam
2007: Golden Arches
2006: The Land Of Fruits, Nuts And Flakes
2005: Why Did The Chicken Cross The Road?

Thursday, August 04, 2016

Riders On The Storm

The weather this week was crazy!  Lots of rain, thunder, and lightning.  This picture was taken somewhere in New Mexico.

You can see the rain ahead on the left, and the dark cloud coming in on the right. One bolt of lightning struck so close to the truck it vibrated the windows.  The accompanying clap of thunder was unexpected and deafening, it scared the bejesus out of me!



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2015: 20 Miles From Sin
2014: Nature's Lace
2013: The Bicycling Capital Of America - Welcoming Those On Both Two Wheels And Eighteen
2012: Crossing The Mojave
2011: Justin Time For A New Pair Of Boots
2010: Miles Of Smiles, Hours Of Laughs
2009: I’m Dreaming Of Blue Skies, Key Lime Pie And Pink Flamingos*
2008: Stop Beyond The Palm
2007: Kittery Dittery Do
2006: Crab Infested Thoughts
2005: Bi The Way

Wednesday, August 03, 2016

Mesilla Valley Morning

I caught this rainbow in Vado, New Mexico, located about 10 miles west of the Texas state line in an area known as the Mesilla Valley.  It's located along the Rio Grande and is dotted by lush with trees and bustling with agriculture-related operations, many family owned.



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2015: 
Ready, Set, Sell!

2014: Squeaky Clean Reflection
2013: Bicycles Liberate, Espresso Invigorates
2012: Playing For Gas Money
2011: Faceted Beauty For Less Than Three Bucks
2010: Triple FFF-18
2009: Hot Tuna Doesn’t Get Any Play In My Truck
2008: Corn Fed Summer
2007: Eddie Breaks The Rules Friday
2006: The Chicks Of Dixie
2005: Text Me

Monday, August 01, 2016

44 Things

Target, one of my favorite stores.
It's been a while since I've done a meme.  My friend recently tagged me in this one on Facebook, so I present to you:

44 Odd Things About Me


1. Do you like blue cheese?
Yes.  The chunkier, the better!

2. Have you ever smoked?
No.  Smoking is disgusting.

3. Do you own a gun?
Absolutely not.

4. What is your favorite flavor?
Lemon.

5. Do you get nervous before Doctor visits?
Not at all.

6. What do you think of hot dogs?
I'm occasionally in the mood for one, but my favorite are Sabrett and they're hard to come by unless you're in New York.

7. Favorite Movie?
Dirty Dancing.

8. What do you prefer to drink in the morning?
It usually depends on where I am, but if I'm home I like to have a hot cup of what I call "coffee drink".

9. Do you do push ups?
I don't think I've ever done a push up.

10. What’s your favorite piece of jewelry?
The sterling silver earrings Ed bought me.

11. What's your favorite hobby?
Reading, I guess.

12. Do you have A.D.D.?
No, absolutely not.

13. What’s the one thing you dislike about yourself?
I interrupt a lot.


14. What is your middle name?
I don't have one.

15. Name three thoughts at this moment.
What's is my favorite hobby?  What am I going to do tomorrow?  I really need to make time to read those two books I just ordered.

16. Name 3 drinks you regularly drink?
Seltzer, Diet Coke, Chocolate Milk.

17. Have you ever had braces?
Yes.

18. Current annoyance right now?
That I have to fold laundry.

19. Favorite place to be?
Upstate New York.

20. How do you ring in the new year?
At home, watching TV.

21. Where would you like to go?
Eastern Europe.

22. Name three people who will complete this?
I'm not tagging anyone, but if you'd like to cut and paste this and leave your responses in the comments section, please feel free!

23. Do you own slippers? YEPPERS
No.  I usually wear white Havaiana flip-flops in the house.

24. What color shirt are you wearing right now?
Pink.

25. Do you like sleeping on satin sheets?
No.  I hate slippery sheets.

26. Can you whistle?
Yes.

27. What are your favorite colors?
It really depends what it is.  For clothes, I like black, white, navy, gray, fuschia.  For a car, I like black or champagne beige.  For a house, white.  For furniture and decor, neutral tones with a pop of teal. But if I had to pick one color only, it'd be black.

28. Would you be a pirate?
No.

29. What songs do you sing in the shower?
I don't sing in the shower, but I do sing while driving and usually they're show tunes, or songs by Barbra Streisand and Frank Sinatra.

30. Favorite girls name?
Luciana.

31. Favorite boys name?
Luke.

32. What’s in your pocket right now?
I don't have pockets.  I'm wearing pajamas.

33. Last thing that made you laugh?
My friend Kim.

34. Best toy as a child?
Barbie dolls.

35. Worst injury you ever had?
Broken collarbone I got when I was in a school bus accident on the second day of school.

36. Where would you love to live?
Vermont.

37. How many TVs do you have?
Two.

38. Who is your loudest friend?
Kim.

39. How many dogs do you have?
None.

40. Does someone trust you?
Yes.

41. What book are you reading at the moment?
How Not To Die and I Brake For Yard Sales.

42. What’s your favorite candy?
Hershey's Kisses.

43. What’s your favorite sports team?
I don't like sports and do not have a favorite team.

44. Favorite month?
September.




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2015: 
I'll See You And Raise You

2014: A Job For A Four-Star General
2013: Colorful Nights, Rainy Days
2012: These Coco Girls Are Not Reading Rare Books
2011: Imagine What These Bird Droppings Look Like
2010: Is It Just The Girlie Bits That Make Us The Cry-Baby Sex?
2009: Who Would Have Thought Cheese And Tarheels Were Such A Perfect Complement?
2008: First Friday Fill-In. Say THAT Five Times Fast!
2007: Another Year Of Life In The Pink
2006: Can You Hear My Happiness?
2005: Alis Volat Propiis

Sunday, July 31, 2016

Summer's The Best


My dear friend Marlaina, who is enjoying the beautiful weather of Vancouver, Canada this week while I'm dying in the 100-plus degrees of Tucson, was kind enough to send me this comic strip.


It's me to a tee.  And although she can tolerate warmer temps than I can, she's still not a fan of hot.



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2015: 
One, Two, Three, Boom! You're In The Bronx

2014: A Beautiful Time Capsule
2013: I'm Giving Up Trucking And Going Into Clothing Design
2012: Wynning Diamonds
2011: Donuts From Heaven
2010: Captain Of The Most Expensive Fried Seafood This Side Of Arthur Treacher’s
2009: Eddie Acts Like A Monkey Friday
2008: I Might Like It If There Were Some Balling Involved
2007: Very Large Cheek Pouches Come In Handy When Traveling
2006: The French Are So Romance Savvy
2005: Wyoming Clean Air Act 

Saturday, July 30, 2016

No Middle Ground

Yesterday I was complaining to my friend that I didn't have anything to wear for an upcoming event.  It's going to be a casual affair, and I've never really been great at casual. I don't like jeans, I wouldn't dream of going out in public in sweatpants, and leaving the house without makeup is unicorn-rare.

It was worse when I first moved to Tucson. Coming from New York, my idea of not dressing up was Tucson's version of black tie.  Over the years I've actually embraced a version of casual I can live with.  And I think as I've gotten fatter and older, I've slipped even further into the black hole of Tucson's flip-flop nation.  If people can show up for job interviews in shorts or sundresses - I kid you not - I can probably lower my standards.

This friend always gives me grief when we go out to dinner - she shows up in a sweatshirt with no bra, and I'm wearing patent leather ballet flats and a something with rhinestones. Needless to say, she was no help in guiding me on what to wear.

She said, "You're either dressed to the hilt or in pajamas.  There's no in-between."

As evidence, I present the photo above - three-and-a-half years old on the left, five years old on the right.  Pajamas, and the hilt.

In fact, I'm sitting in my pajamas as I type this.  Clearly, nothing has changed in over forty years.



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2015: Check Out These Links Before The Big One Hits
2014: In Six Months, They'll Know Right Where To Put It
2012: Me And The Thunder
2011: Her Cup Overfloweth With Idiocy
2010: Dear Arizona,
2009: Come Sit In Our Cab For A Spel And Let Us Take You On The Road!
2008: How Well Do You Know Your Stringed Instruments?
2007: Meat. The Old Fashioned Way.
2006: Kicking The Hell Out Of Texas
2005: Look, Mary!

Thursday, July 28, 2016

Trapping Tourists Since 1965

Interstate 10, Exit 322 east of Benson, Arizona.  Either stop by to see this famous tourist trap, or read this and spoil some of the mystery.



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2015: 
Selfie In 53

2014: Storm Warning
2013: Another Home Run By Big Ed
2012: A Window On New Mexico
2011: My Man Makes A Mad Meal
2010: Less Is Not More In All Cases
2009: Grain Gone By
2008: The Absolute Beauty Of It
2007: Not Only Did He Pray, He Posed
2006: Camera Phone Coolness
2005: Life Is A Salt Shaker

Tuesday, July 26, 2016

The Bronx Terpsichoreans

My maternal grandmother was a Bronx Girl. And she loved to dance.  She went out many times with her older brother Danny, and as she got older, would accompany him and his wife to competitions all over New York City.  I loved listening to her stories about all the places they went and the competitions entered.  

In the photo above, my grandmother (the girl in the middle), and the other ladies sporting Victory Rolls, sit on the balcony of the famous Stardust Ballroom, located on Tremont Avenue at 177th Street in the Bronx. The year was 1946.

Her brother Danny, and his wife Marie, were there for the Harvest Moon Ball preliminaries.  Here they are, all decked out in their fancy duds for the competition.  My grandmother wrote the note on the photo.
In this photo, they look up at my grandfather, who was on the balcony taking photos.  They're waiting for their turn to take the floor.
In this photo, you'll see Uncle Danny and Aunt Marie in full swing on the floor, doing their thing for the preliminary competition.  I don't have any photo evidence that my grandmother took place in this competition, but I'd bet anything she was dancing at some point during the night.  

Many years later, in 1974, more than 200 people attended a dinner-dance to honor my grandmother's brother Dan and his wife Marie for their fervent service and dedication as dancing instructors at the Mary Queen of Peace Knights of Columbus Hall in the Bronx. The event was covered by the local newspaper and the headline called them terpsichoreans.

Uncle Danny owned a radio and TV repair shop, but on this night they received a plaque for teaching dancing to community residents.  Approximately 300 people "graduated" from their dancing school.

The newspaper article said they received vociferous applause after they demonstrated the intricate steps of the tango, and as an encore, Dan and his sister (My grandmother, Mary Pica, mentioned in the article) "brought the house down" with their version of the Lindy.  My grandmother saved the article: