Wednesday, March 23, 2022
Taking A Ship To See A Queen
This is the view through our windshield as we drove off the ferry into Victoria - the capital city of British Columbia, located on Vancouver Island in Canada. The crossing was just 90 minutes from Port Angeles, Washington in the United States. The ferry drops you right into downtown Victoria - and as you drive onto the main drag, you pass the beautiful parliament building, which is graced with a statue of Queen Victoria herself right in front of it.
There was one other semi truck on the ferry with us. He was a few vehicles ahead of us. We were one of the last vehicles off. I know it's no big deal for people who take these ferries all the time, but I love when we get to take our truck on a ferry! It's a bit more exciting than our everyday travel.
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2021: Dignity Of Earth And Sky
2020: When Life Gives You Lemons
2019: Istanbul Cobble
2018: Circulating The Morning Air In The Lonestar State
2017: It's The Real OLD Thing
2016: Stopping In Style
2015: Patiently Waiting
2014: Find Out Where You Can Dine With Giraffes
2013: Sputtering With Excitement
2012: Water May Not Be The Only Liquid Nourishing These Flowers
2011: Nappy Time
2010: Dick. Not A Dick. Which One Are You?
2009: First The Poultry, Now This
2008: California Moon
2007: Ryno And Rob
2006: Living The Dream
2005: Sorry, no post on this day. The blog didn't start until May 2005!
Saturday, February 19, 2022
A Hail Mary, Lucky Horseshoes, And Some Really Good Trip Planning Are All That's Needed
Parking is a serious problem for truckers. And it has been for years. People want the items trucks bring, but they don't seem to want us parking anywhere near them. NIMBYs, the whole lot of them.
Even when we pre-plan our trip and have an idea where we’ll be stopping for the night, it doesn’t always work out. I’m the night driver of our team. And for some reason, I always seem to get lucky. My friend claims I have a golden horseshoe up my ass. Which, looking at the arc of my life, may be very, very true. But not everyone has one.
That doesn’t mean I haven’t run into snags. Sometimes you plan to shut down at a particular truck stop for the night but you get there and it’s full. Sometimes you know there’s a rest area coming up but you get there and it’s closed. These are real-life everyday problems. I always leave myself extra time and never run my clock out. You don't even know the panic that sets in when you're watching your time run out and you're still driving to try to find a spot. One time I literally coasted into a parking lot with almost no time to spare. That was a white-knuckle few seconds, let me tell you.
As you can see in the photo - taken on Interstate-95 Northbound in St. Augustine, Florida - the “No Parking” signs are abundant. There must have been 40 signs there, on the outbound ramp of the rest area. The company we are leased to does not allow parking on ramps so we never have and never will do it, but lots of companies let their drivers park wherever they can find a spot. When you see trucks parked on the shoulder of the highway, or on the ramps of exits or rest areas, you can bet your last dollar it's because they can't find an appropriate or safe place to park.
The 2019 Jason’s Law Report found that 98% of truck drivers regularly experience problems finding safe parking. The report is named after Jason Rivenburg, a driver who was robbed and murdered when he parked in an abandoned gas station in South Carolina. He was the father of a two-year-old at the time, and his wife gave birth to twins just thirteen days after he was killed. An absolute tragedy.
It's a problem everywhere - in the northeast, California (which I think is the very worst), Atlanta, Chicago, most large cities. But even in places where we have to pick up and deliver. Some of these companies, which have plenty of parking at their facilities, don't even allow us to park there when waiting to load or unload. They want their freight, they want it ASAP, yet they make things difficult for the drivers.
In addition to the lack of parking, I personally have a problem with other vehicles using truck parking spots - like RVs, cars towing little trailers. Or a pickup truck that shouldn't be in the truck parking area at all. I think they should all go to Walmart parking lots, where they are allowed and most often, we aren’t. We have to adhere to federally mandated Hours of Service. They don’t. When our time is up, it’s up. We need that spot. We are the ones who need safe, secure, available parking.
Truckers will never stop talking about the issues we face on a daily basis. I just hope someone, somewhere, is listening.
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UPDATE: This week, U.S. Department of Transportation Secretary Pete Buttigieg discussed the lack of safe truck parking. I like Buttigieg. And I'll like him even more if he's actually the one who finally does something about the parking situation. Knowing who and what he's up against, I won't hold my breath.
But I will keep my butt cheeks squeezed tight - there's no way I'm letting that golden horseshoe slip out.
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2021: Beautiful Freak Of Nature
2020: Sorry, no post on this day.
2019: Ring The Bell For Tips
2018: Snacks & Bar
2017: So This Happened Today
2016: Agrarian
2015: Tied Off
2014: Seek And Ye Shall Find
2013: Frantically Trying To Get Back To Indonesia
2012: I’d Like Some Snow For Dessert
2011: Getting A Little Carried Away
2010: On A Need To Know Basis
2009: Something Has Gone Terribly Wrong
2008: Flying Into The Sun
2007: Riding The Rails
2006: Keeping Me Quiet With A Chocolate Snap
2005: Sorry, no post on this day. The blog didn’t start until May 2005!
Saturday, January 15, 2022
Campo Wind
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2019: Rock Solid Saint
2018: Rainforest Adventures
2017: Low Ceiling In The Desert
2016: An Original Recycler
2015: There's A Black Hole In The Desert (With Truck Parking)
2014: Strength In Numbers
2013: Woman Cannot Live On Bread Alone
2012: Why Milk Is ALWAYS At The Top Of My Shopping List
2011: Fun For Sale
2010: Dublin Is Incredibly Corny
2009: Welcome To Snowhio
2008: When Big Hair And Denim Were King
2007: Open 24 Hours
2006: Lucky One Eye
2005: Sorry, no post on this day. The blog didn’t start until May 2005!
Friday, December 31, 2021
Change Often In 2022
The Grand Canyon, May 2021 |
So let's see....what newsworthy items did 2021 open with?
Oh yeah, that's right - an insurrection at the Capitol. What a way to start the year! Exciting, no?
But then the year ended with the death of Betty White on December 31st, just seventeen days shy of her 100th birthday. How's that for Pandemic Year Two bullshit?
We lost quite a few other celebrities - some who I won't miss and who should have gone sooner. I didn't realize until I saw that article, but among the people who died in 2021 was Jessica McClintock. Remember that floral, floaty, lacy, puffy-sleeved romantic Gunne Sax dress we all wanted for prom, special occasions, and weddings? She was behind that. I know many people have no idea who she was, but she was a big deal in the eighties. Go ahead and pull out prom pictures from that time. She was there.
We worked quite a bit that first month, just a lot of driving and sleeping, as there were lots of team loads for us. We eventually made it home by the end of the month just in time for my yearly mammogram and several trips to our favorite taco joint. I guess the work in January made up for the time we were off in February. That's trucking for you.
March was busy, April we were home again - found out Ed had been chosen to be a Landstar Roadstar, got our vaccines (finally!), and had some work done on the truck. We went back to work until the end of August and then we were off again until the end of the year.
Ed, in his Landstar Roadstar Award jacket |
1. What did you do in 2021 that you’d never done before?
The most out-of-my-comfort-zone thing that stands out? Going camping in the Grand Canyon. Me. Camping. When my friends saw my post on Instagram they called, texted, and wrote - "Who are you?" and "You? Camping??"
Have you ever met me? And if you haven't, have you read this blog? I don't camp. I don't even like to be outdoors. Sitting around the backyard with friends is about as "outside" as I can tolerate.
Let's see...what else did I do? Well, since I got my rock painting supplies for Christmas last year, I painted a few rocks.
I celebrated a four-year wedding anniversary.
208 weeks of bliss. |
I flew on an airplane wearing a face mask. Very odd being covered up every minute of the trip - I felt like a bank robber that couldn't breathe.
My in-laws moved in with us for 6 weeks (more on that later).
I went to a Cantaloupe Festival in Fallon, Nevada. Mostly against my will.
Farm equipment at the Cantaloupe Festival in Fallon, NV |
I discovered I was misdiagnosed with a life-threatening illness, after having gone for a second and third opinion.
I went to the top of the Space Needle in Seattle - something I didn't even do when I lived there.
And I made Tomato Jam, which was deeeelicious!
My delicious Tomato Jam |
No and no. I did once again resolve to diet and exercise and I did once again, fail miserably. I'm just not into it. Just not. I find no joy being outside unless the weather is at or below 65 degrees (which is almost never in Tucson), my neighborhood is so ugly that going for a bike ride to look at dirt and cactus is not any kind of motivation, and hiking? Up a hill? On purpose? No. I can't even say I'd hike up a hill if I were being chased by a bear. I'd probably just give up and let him maul me.
My cousin and her new husband had a baby boy - Gianni Luis - in November. Half Italian, half Mexican, 100% gorgeous!
4. Did anyone close to you die?
My Tucson bestie’s mom died at the beginning of the year. She was devastated and has been having a very hard time with the loss.
The Magnolia Silos in Waco, TX |
5. What countries did you visit?
Follow through. I'd like to actually follow through, to the end, many of the things I start. I've always had many balls in the air, and I kinda like it. And I don't feel bad when I abandon something. But I do realize that sometimes things I WANT can only be obtained by following through. So, I'm going to try to get on that.
7. What dates from 2021 will remain etched in your memory, and why?
January 6 - Insurrection Day. I could not BELIEVE what I was seeing. What a disappointing day for the people of our country to have resorted to that kind of behavior. Absolutely unacceptable.
8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?
Moving Ed's parents from New Mexico to Arizona. It was quite the undertaking.
Ed's dad had a TIA at the end of June so he went out in July and August to see his dad, each visit for a week. Then, at the end of August, we decided to go get them and have them stay with us for a while, just to be able to spend some time with them and keep an eye on his dad. Instead, we wound up packing their ENTIRE house in four days, got a realtor, got a landscaper, had a yard sale, donated things to Goodwill, and then eventually got on the road. Between the four of us, we moved a U-Haul truck, an RV, two cars, a trailer, a golf cart, and two dogs, out of Carlsbad to Tucson. In one week.
Ed's dad, looking cool on the trip from New Mexico to Arizona. |
We moved all of their stuff - from their 1,700 square foot house - into our family room. It was JAM PACKED with boxes, furniture, appliances. Just tons of STUFF. His parents are 80 and 87, so there was NO WAY they were going to be able to handle any of this on their own.
The in-laws' new living room. |
So for months, we were completely consumed. I did ALL their medical stuff - set up appointments, filled out new patient paperwork with medical histories (holy shit - that's a lot of information when you're dealing with people who have lived 80 and 87 years!), and we both took them to their appointments. We showed them where everything was. Got them comfortable in the town and the immediate area in which they'd be doing most of their shopping and medical stuff. We even took the dogs to the groomers!
So I think successfully getting my in-laws settled in Tucson, has been my (and Ed's) biggest achievement for the year. It's worked out so well and I'm so happy they're happy!
I must have had a pretty decent year because I can't recall any failures.
10. Did you suffer illness or injury?
I had debilitating back pain that kept me out of work for a month - it’s a recurring pain from a crash I was in and I never know when it’s going to hit. I couldn’t move, stand or sit comfortably, sleep without waking, or even take a deep breath without sharp pain.
11. What was the best thing you bought?
Bills, retirement, Verizon.
15. What did you get really, really, really excited about?
The All-Clad cookware my friends handed down to me. They didn’t have a use for them anymore and thought I would appreciate the quality and make good use of them. Hells, yeah, I will! If you know, you know - this collection includes hundreds of dollars worth of pots and pans. I can't think of a better hand-me-down. Thanks, M & G…I love them!
All-Clad Pots from M & G |
17. Compared to this time last year, are you: (a) happier or sadder? (b) thinner or fatter? (c) richer or poorer?
Happy, fat, and breaking even.
18. What do you wish you’d done more of?
This guy brings me flowers - don't argue with this guy. |
19. What do you wish you’d done less of?
20. How did you spend Christmas?
A small gathering of family and friends. Only six of us. Since we still have some vaccination hold-outs, I couldn’t include everyone this year. Such a shame. But I still cooked as if they were in attendance. We had very non-traditional Christmas food:
Christmas Eve, we made Brisket, scalloped potatoes that were TO DIE FOR, candied yams (my MIL’s request), corn niblets, baked beans, cucumber salad, and coleslaw. I made my Aunt Ronni’s famous rice pudding for dessert.
On Christmas Day I made chicken cutlets (my mother’s request), mashed potatoes, roasted carrots, and sautéed broccoli. Simple. Chocolate cake, cheesecake, and leftover rice pudding for dessert. Now you can understand why I’m always “fat” in question number seventeen.
This year's very pared-down Christmas table |
22. What was your favorite TV program?
Hands down, Yellowstone. If you are not watching this show, I don't even want to know you. I cannot get enough of this show. The hour flies by and always leaves me wanting more.
In addition to Yellowstone, because I guess I have to balance out the rugged cowboys and the badass force of nature that is Beth, my other favorite is This Is Us. I absolutely love this show. I love the writing, the characters, the feelings I have when I watch it. Sadly, this season is the last one. I'm preparing to cry a lot and be emotionally devastated by the time it's over. I fear I may not recover. I need to immediately start looking for a show to take its place. Any suggestions?
Storm in South Tucson |
23. Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year?
24. What was the best book you read?
I didn't read at all this year - mostly listened to podcasts. Oh! And guess what? There's a Yellowstone podcast! Yes!! I should probably do another "favorite podcasts" post since I've started to listen to so many new ones. Yeah, that's an idea. Look for it in 2022.
25. What was your greatest musical discovery?
Probably BTS (a Korean boy band) because of their song Dynamite, the one I heard in the Emily in Paris show. I knew of BTS, I just never really knew any of their music. Now I do.
From the Chihuly Garden and Glass Museum in Seattle, WA |
27. What did you want and not get?
I really wanted side diamonds for my engagement ring but it just didn't happen - mostly because I can't decide on the shape I want (baguette? trillion? oval?). I'm still combing Instagram for ideas. Damn being an indecisive Libra!
28. What was your favorite film of this year?
My quote of a quote in Real Simple magazine. |
30. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?
I did a lot of leggings and tee-shirts in 2021, and I even ventured away from my signature black into wearing some crazy colored leggings (see photo below). I also liked floaty dresses and capri leggings with ballerinas. I'm considering paring down my closet this year to maybe ten outfits. I always wear the same thing anyway so really, I only need about five outfits in regular rotation.
My cool tropical leggings. |
Genetics. I come from a very sane line of Italians, believe it or not.
33. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?
Stanley Tucci. I think I've always loved him but I really enjoyed him in the CNN special, "Stanley Tucci: Searching For Italy". He's handsome, classy, charismatic, Italian. You can even get the recipes for the meals he ate in each episode. Check them out here - the Spaghetti alla Nerano is on the top of my list. I can't wait for the second season!
34. What political issue stirred you the most?
Voting rights. I'm sick over the ways politicians are making it harder, not easier, for people to vote. And the others I'm always very passionate about - healthcare, immigration, and equality (race/gender/etc).
New York-style bagels in Tucson. |
35. Who did you miss?
My best friend. She's in Nashville and I haven’t spent quality time with her in YEARS. I need a girls' weekend, just her and I, to talk about old times and laugh until the wee hours of the morning.
36. Who was the best new person you met?
Since I rarely left the house, meeting new people was challenging. I can't say I met anyone that stands out as a "best new person". Maybe next year.
37. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2021.
A tree in our yard. |
"Life is dynamite"
It comes from the BTS song I discovered this year - Dynamite:
So watch me bring the fire and set the night alight
Cup of milk, let's rock and roll
King Kong, kick the drum, rolling on like a Rolling Stone
Sing song when I'm walking home
Jump up to the top, LeBron
Ding dong, call me on my phone
Ice tea and a game of ping pong, huh
Can you hear the bass boom? I'm ready (woo hoo)
Life is sweet as honey
Yeah, this beat cha-ching like money, huh
Disco overload, I'm into that, I'm good to go
I'm diamond, you know I glow up
Hey, so let's go
So watch me bring the fire and set the night alight (hey)
Shining through the city with a little funk and soul
So I'ma light it up like dynamite, whoa oh oh
Whoever wanna come along
Word up, talk the talk
Just move like we off the wall
Day or night, the sky's alight
So we dance to the break of dawn
Ladies and gentlemen, I got the medicine
So you should keep ya eyes on the ball, huh
Can you hear the bass boom? I'm ready (woo hoo)
Life is sweet as honey
Yeah, this beat cha-ching like money
Disco overload, I'm into that, I'm good to go
I'm diamond, you know I glow up
Let's go
So watch me bring the fire and set the night alight (hey)
Shining through the city with a little funk and soul
So I'ma light it up like dynamite, whoa oh oh
Dy-na-na-na, na-na, na-na-na, na-na-na, life is dynamite
Shining through the city with a little funk and soul
So I'ma light it up like dynamite, whoa oh oh
Dy-na-na-na, na-na, na-na, ayy
Dy-na-na-na, na-na, na-na, ayy
Light it up like dynamite
Dy-na-na-na, na-na, na-na, ayy
Dy-na-na-na, na-na, na-na, ayy
Light it up like dynamite
So watch me bring the fire and set the night alight
Shining through the city with a little funk and soul
So I'ma light it up like dynamite (this is ah)
So watch me bring the fire and set the night alight (alight, oh)
Shining through the city with a little funk and soul
So I'ma light it up like dynamite, whoa (light it up like dynamite)
Dy-na-na-na, na-na, na-na-na, na-na-na, life is dynamite
Shining through the city with a little funk and soul
So I'ma light it up like dynamite, whoa oh oh
And my slogan for the New Year...
Downtown Port Huron in Michigan. |
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2019: How 2019 Fell Through The Cracks
2018: Galloping Into 2019
2017: 2017 Saw A Snowstorm, A Penitentiary, And A Wedding
2016: 2016 Has Ended And It's Time To Breathe Again
2015: The Sun Sets On 2015
2014: Thanks, 2014. For Everything.
2013: I Am Gonna OWN You, 2014!
2012: Wrapping Up A Year Of Making My Own Sunshine
2011: Later, 2011!
2010: That’s A Wrap!
2009: Out With The Old
2008: Another Year, Another 365 Days
2007: All Good Things Come To An End
2006: The Symphony Of A Thousand Saws
2005: Suicidal Firewood
Monday, December 13, 2021
Christmas All Day And All Night
My Christmas Tree, in day and night mode.
I've done this same color scheme for several years now - white lights, gold ribbon and balls, some glass ornaments, and red snowflakes. Next year I think I might have to change it up. Or, add a second tree to the house with another theme.
I keep the tree lights on all the time - I love the twinkliness of them!
2020: Contained
2019: Sorry, no post on this day.
2018: The Most Exclusive Rooftop
2017: Cell Block 8
2016: The Price Of American Made
2015: Sunset In The Brick City
2014: The King Of Light
2013: The End Of WiFi???
2012: Through A Canopy Of Oaks
2011: Clap Your Hands
2010: Wishing For A Blizzard But Will Settle For Flakes
2009: A Hideous Thief Exposed
2008: Southwest Sunset
2007: Subtlety Is SO Not His Middle Name
2006: Bridging Chicago
2005: Oxymoronic Holiday
Sunday, November 21, 2021
The Conquerer
Ed and I have been swamped getting his parents settled here in Tucson - we moved them here in September from Carlsbad, New Mexico. We've been non-stop for the last couple of months.
Sadly, I haven't cooked for weeks - we've been doing a lot of takeout and eating at restaurants, sometimes a quick fast-food hamburger on the go while out and about for the day.
But tonight, Ed took me to Epazote Kitchen & Cocktails at the Hilton El Conquistador Resort, a place I actually worked many moons ago.
The patio of the restaurant has a beautiful view of Pusch Ridge, part of the Santa Catalina Mountain Range, and the weather this time of year is just perfect for dining outside.
We started with the Charred Vegetable Quesadilla with a Chiptole Crema, which was fantastic. It actually gave me an idea to make something similar at home since back when I was cooking, I did a lot of roasted vegetables. Those would definitely be great in a quesadilla.
Then we had a salad - Ed had the Baby Caesar, I had the Epazote Wedge - both delish.
And for dinner, we both opted for the Grilled Prime New York Steak. It was served with Smashed Fingerling Potatoes, Asparagus, and a Poblano Chili and Onion Goat Cheese Fondue spooned atop the steak. Poblanos and goat cheese are two of my favorite things and on steak, something I wouldn't have thought to do, they were fan-freaking-tastic!
It was definitely a wonderful evening and made me realize I should have Ed choose the restaurants more often.
El Conquistador came through just as I had remembered!
2020: Route 66 Midway Point
2019: Hello, My Little Dumpling
2018: Colorful Confections
2017: The Opposite Of Being Seen And Not Heard
2016: El Ed Rides El Tour
2015: Not Everything Is Lost
2014: Hairspray Is Gross
2013: Breathing Retro Life Into The West End Of A Miracle Mile
2012: A Little Bit Of Wyoming
2011: A Franchophile’s Paradise
2010: 10 Things I Learned On My Vacation In Italy
2009: A Beautiful Deep Fried Pocket Of Cornmeal Dough. Or, My Mom.
2008: A Foxy Furry Little Friend
2007: The One That Got Away
2006: Don’t We All?
2005: Miss Singular